Long Distance Relationships aren't worth it! ':('

[Cute_Hispanic_Neko_Shounen]

Hi there im new here and i got some new info on long distance relationships arent worth it if you can't find a way to see each other! as for me i met this cute guy from Laredo he goes to college we been together for 7 months now but, we havent seen each other physically that means that me and him had an urge so strong to see each other the problem was that none of us didnt have a way to get there well during that time things got worst as we started to fight badly, on the phone until i just stop talking to him, then when i found him online i talk to him only to get myself into more sadness and a depression so bad that you people would'nt imagine how bad things in my life are going, well my boyfriend(or use to be) prefer to dump me just like that and go out with another one near him, now to you people in here this sounds horribly disgusting! he didnt care how much i went thru so my family can accept him! and now he does this now i had humiliate in front of my family for this! hes a coward a dirty perv to! he just dump me without even trying harder! now because of that i cant keep myself quiet i can't stop thinking of him! because of his stupidity of dumping me i was about to commit suicide real bad, it took all 5 of my family to stop me i didn't fear death for once since my life has been wasted like throwing money down the drain thats what happen to me! i spent alot of money fixing myself, getting newer things and trying my best at school to finished faster, all this so just that god damm no good #%*@$~! laughs at me by dumping me, you people it really hurts when you try so hard to be better for your boyfriend/girlfriend when you put your heart into something so much! so just to hear that your gettting dump and wam! thats it ! no more boy/girlfriend thats it your life is over! you dont know what to do but to cry like a child.

If you want to contact me email me at Tsukino_Kidofamily867@sailorfans.zzn.com, ryo_778akinawa@yahoo.com, or kahato_ginma@hotmail.com i hope you all understand me my position right now (COMPLETLY HEART BROKEN)

[Rene]

Well what can I tell you hun? A very good friend of mine was going thru the same exact thing. He found a lover in the yahoo chat rooms. And he told me about a few days after... He was all excited, oh we talked about this and that, and we exchanged photos and so forth... << I was happy for my friend... Within the first month, they visited each other... alternating it. I was impressed with the relationship.

Then one nite, my friend invites me over to his house and said, well my lover is coming to town and I want you two to meet. I was excited for him. I went over, and his lover came down, good looking, not bad at all, the lover was a professional from Laredo, I think in the Medical area.

The second time the lover came, I was invited to spend some time with them, and we all had fun. Unfortunately, my friend left town for work called, and I adviced him that most of the time distance does break relationships. And well i was explained to that this was "special" and it wouldnt happened to them. So I gave them my blessing. Two months later down the highway of love, my friend calls and tells me that they been fighting for lil things that didnt matter. There was always an excuse for the arguments over the phone. The next time I heard from my friend was that his lover said "I never loved you" and it was over. Calls were ignored, letters never answered... all left was ashes from a broken heart.

But trying to commit suicide on something this worthless, for someone that didnt deserve is not worth it. Look up, for another beautiful day will come and just maybe, one day soon someone better will come and sweep you off your feet. I believe all things happen for a reason, and not a coincidence. Sometimes we go through tough times to prepare us for the upcoming situations, which will make you stronger and a much better person..

God bless you lil heart, and I wish and hope that you find happiness soon.

[Cute_Anthro_Panda_Boi]

Hey Rene (~)-(O)

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all my post and replying it your a good pal! ^^ actuall its mea Neko this is my second name here cuz to my first one blah!, im bored out couldnt find out my old pass so i got a new one <_<

As for the rest Thanks for cheering me up now that is old news now i got good news :D i got a new Boyfriend! ^^ im so happy now cuz hes such a sweet boy and forget about the old Sonofbitch Laredo he didnt had the balls!!

Im glad he never touch me! im so glad im still a virgin! cuz my new BF maybe even from a farther place but hes a sweet honest and loyal guy, his name is ^^ Levi *hugs his plushy* http://profiles.yahoo.com/rogue_lei_jadeite thats his profile he maybe from Nebraska but he is trying his best to come to me and hes more of an honest person and he is coming to be with me pretty soon ^_^ hehehe im so happy now but anyways thank you so much for taking the time, to reply it. :P

[BlueCollar]

A long time ago I too was involved in long distance relationship and it too was the culprit of many sleepless nights and restless days. Finally it ended and not too soon. Although it was difficult at first, it turned out to be a blessing and a lesson learned.

From experience, I strongly encourage you to find a local partner. Begining a relationship over the phone or chat room does not set a firm foundation in which to build on.

GOOD LUCK!

[Rene]

Man... I dont think Ive ever really experienced a long term relationship... nevermind I take that back.. about 6 yrs ago... when i first started chat... I really never had idea u could do that over the interenet.. Well lets just say i was pushed/persuade into it... and well it was ok i guess, til one time, the people we use to chat with, had a get together. I couldnt go, but my internet love did... at the Get-together they found sex partners. someone called me to tell me about it.. I confronted and at first it was denied but then admitted.. was a horrible feeling, and since then, im sticking to real time. lol.. But i do hope ur relationship works out Neko!

[eagle4ever]

been there done that; the chat long distance crap.
although i must admit my experience was all good. we're still the best of friends considering our 'meeting' was back in '99. when i met him he was single. he now has a wife and a new baby. we still talk on the phone all the time, but i guess sometimes its scary cuz of the fact that we're both hitched. after that i started chatting with someone else... the guy ended up being from EP :o . he used to claim he was from SA... but when it came down for him to give me his digits,,, i was like 773????? hahahaha , the joke was on him. i later told him he had been busted big time. i was fortunate enuff to have met him too. even though he turned out to be a big mamon,,, he was so stuck on himself. we also remained friends , then we just lost contact. i know where he works but im not calling his ass no mo.
he is married as well. i like stuff to be done discreetly and he was letting his co- workers in on our personal stuff. i was livid,, i was like.. dood,... U DONT DO SHI..LIKE THAT......hellooooooo we;re both married.. needless to say he was the last chat person i met(that was also in 99)

[BlueCollar]

Wow eagle, you really had alot of guts doing that while you were married. Not that it takes alot of courage to do, but it takes alot to do it here in EP. I never tried that while I was married but I sure was tempted plenty of times.

[Rene]

Wow..! well thats the deal with most men in EP, well not just here... but everywhere, they go f... someone and they think its alright to spread the word among friends... Man, specially when married, no?

A few weeks ago, I heard this married man tell this other married man about the adventures he was having with some puta from FAMSA... that man told his wife, his wife told her friend that story, that friend was a mutual friend of the first party.. BIG BIG MISTAKE!

oh well.. But that wasnt a longdistance relationship, was just a f..ked up relationship...

[dehura13]

Greetings to all :) I am new at this site and would only come read some of your topics. The one topic I found most interesting and only because I too have been there, done that......was on long-distance relationships. I am 46, seperated, and after 25 years of marriage and grown kids (w/grandkids), my life has changed dramatically. It hasn't been easy to find a date, much less a friendship with any man in Eagle Pass. It seems everyone knows everyone here in this town and well you become a marked woman. I did go to chat rooms and found many of the men there are mostly all wanting one thing and one thing only......all perverts! I did meet a man that my sister introduced me to and have been seeing him for 5 months. Its getting harder and harder, being he is so far away. I would love to find someone here locally and again, the biggest problem is where????? My social life is Wally World or HEB. Most of the men that I've seen are married or with a partner. Haven't met a single man yet that would be interested or even come up to me to talk. If anyone has any ideas on how to get into meeting anyone that is single...please reply! The club scene is not totally my idea of finding a man! I tried that and again, married men. I feel embarressed in having to be seen there and the only reason I wanted to go was because I love to dance and listen to music. Again, the looks and the gossip. Now regarding this site.......I love it!! Finally a good for Eagle Pass and for others from else where to read and hear. I excitedly, told my sisters in Ohio and Missouri and they too come in and read! This is their way of keeping in touch with Eagle Pass. You may want to leave this place but you always come back. This is our Town, and I know my family misses it. When they come down to visit, which is not very often, sometimes years, they are overwhelmed with the growth. I was raised as a small child here in Eagle Pass, born out of state but it feel as if its been the only home I know. I want to congratulate the person that founded this site and wish you much luck in providing more to our community. This is a new beginning as well as my life too. Thanks again, and hello to all who read this. Proud to be from Eagle Pass!!!

[eagle4ever]

welcome dehura.
i hear ya girl. all the good ones are taken. im sure there is still someone out there for you, but ur going to have to look hard . and ur right,, clubs are NOT the place to find these dudes, besides the ones u see there, are single in appearance but hitched in their 'other' life.i think u will have better luck at the HEB and WALMART.
the clubbers are mainly one nighters and u will probably never see them again,, 'cept at the stores with their other halves :lol:
much luck 2 u :)

[Rene]

Welcome Dehura... and again, I totally agree with Eagle4Ever! A couple of months ago, if im not mistaken, I had someone from the forum here, either a reader or just a passer by who sent me an Email to my Business email, which I really dont mind at all... but was a question that at the moment made me laugh... It said something like, being that we work at a Salon, and there is talk among us... Where would it be a good place to meet nice gurls... single ones... An honestly, I guess its like the Gurls, where do we find men? And even tho Salons are a hot spot for gossip, I wouldnt know where all the single women or men go that are looking for Dates... For sure not at the Topless bar!

I beleive the man that emailed me is originally from Piedras, I think in his 40's, but from what I understood, I think he was away for a while and is now back... I never replied coz I really dont have an answer for him and I really dont wanna be responsible for introducing strangers to strangers... Who knows it could be a serial killer! lol...

Wishes everyone luck in their relationships... Much Love

[mena]

Dehura 13,

I am glad to hear you enjoy this site. There are alot of members who make this site interesting. I hope you will continue to participate and join the crowd here. We are always interested in what people have on their minds.

For those who live in EP, isn't there like a church organization for singles? I know up in Dallas they have different organizations for singles of differents ages. It seems like there are alot of singles in EP maybe someone should start a singles organization. Maybe when we get the chat room going, everyone who is truthfully single should announce it and meet in a group somewhere public. I am not single but, I hear of people just wanting to get together to make friends.

[throthrem]

Dudes and Dudettes: I think that you have a point.

[Rene]

I can imagine people, off and on going to these organizations, due to the often breakups and partner switching back and forth... Then again that is what I see and hear... But it could happen, a single organization, that is. Well I wish all the singles luck and hope you find your honest and true love!

BTW, new design to the website check it out pls.
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